Friday, February 13, 2015
Presence at School: Co-Creating the Future of Education 02/12 by The Voice of Leadership | Business Podcasts
I had the privilege of being interviewed this week with Jane Weber and Roelien Bokxem, my partners at PresenceAtWork and PresenceAtSchool. I am bringing their co-creation - Collective Leadership for intact exec and leadership teams - to the US, and also working to bring this incredible training to 17 - 24 year olds - our future leaders.
To learn more about what makes this Leadership program special, listen in to understand both the genesis and essence of this highly experiential and transformative learning. It is not about making money (although we all need to sustain ourselves, of course!). And this comes through loudly and clearly in this internet radio program, in part due to the masterful interview with Linda Lombardo.
Presence at School: Co-Creating the Future of Education 02/12 by The Voice of Leadership | Business Podcasts
Tuesday, December 02, 2014
Gratitude and Why I Work - Part 1
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| Erin (11), me (mom), Ryan (19), Kelsey (21) on Thanksgiving Day, 2014 at my parent's home where I grew up |
This Thanksgiving, my family, including these 3 wonderful souls that I have the joy of calling "my children", gathered on a snowy day on Cuyler Hill, at my mom and dad's home. There were 36 of us this year, which is fairly typical, and we had 4 "little ones" under the age of 5, who bring their own special brand of noisy joy!
My 11 year old Erin just looked over my shoulder and said, "What does this have to do with why you work mom?". And here's what I told her... "Because I work for you, so that we can continue to have a world where we can come together and share meals, and enjoy in the bounty of this beautiful natural world." And she said, "Use the word therefore, it makes you sound sophisticated - that's what my student teacher told me." Yep! That's why I work - part 1 anyway, in very simple terms! It's about love.
I have always worked, since I was old enough to drive a tractor in 6th grade on this family farm where I grew up. This is where I learned to love nature deeply, for the beauty of the earth. Mother Earth - inspiring music, poetry, hymns, prayers, art, dreams, and drawing us into her for hiking, biking, creekwalking, exploring, swimming, stargazing, horseback riding, skating, skiing, camping... and the list goes on.
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| Ryan, Erin and Kelsey on top of Black Bear Mountain |
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| Ryan on top of Marcy, overlooking Lake Placid |
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
Practicing empathy and humility instead of judgment

Oh, give it one more try before you give up on love.
One bad apple don't spoil the whole bunch girl.
Oh, I don't care what they say,
I don't care what you heard.
― Mahatma Gandhi
Monday, September 22, 2014
Kudos to Emma Watson - inspiring and activating men and women to see gender bias more completely as a human rights issue that hurts both sexes
This all shows up in the workplace as well of course. And there is a huge push for women to "break" the glass ceiling to rise above the "sticky floor" and to "lean in". I see this a bit differently - I see male and female leaders both that are collaborative and labelled as "not decisive". I see leaders that don't accept the status quo be labelled as "difficult to manage", when their intention is to drive innovation or improvement.
If we want to truly address these significant global challenges - like gender equality - we need to leverage the unique strengths of every person, regardless of race, sex, or any other "difference". We need to bring forth our most authentic selves, our unique strengths and voices, and to fully respect and call forth the authentic strengths of others. Our differences make us collectively STRONGER. Imagine a world where we all understand who we are at our best, and what we can most contribute to the world around us by the age of 20 or 25. And in that same world, where we are given the opportunity in high school, college and in our early careers to take turns "leaning in" to co-lead with our peers - who are equally clear about their own strengths. Where differences are cherished and leveraged, not just tolerated... I believe we are on a path to this future - and efforts like HeForShe will help us get there. And ultimately, it's up to each of us to do our part.
Monday, August 04, 2014
Calling "the crazy ones" - the ones who think they can change the world... (is that you??)
- by making sustainability real - with meaningful action
- by working to get healthy food into school cafeterias
- by working on healthcare and insurance reform
- by piloting new innovative alternative or integrated healthcare approaches
- by building better buildings, transportation systems, manufacturing processes that consume less and produce less waste
- etc... the list is endless and inspiring...
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| Which way is up? Seeing things differently and a view worth saving... |
Tuesday, April 08, 2014
Daring to lift our gaze from our "smaller worlds"
Monday, March 24, 2014
Are you someone that is "Daring Greatly" in your life and work?
- Think about the nature of politics today in our government bodies and in our public and private organizations.
- Think about the average executive team, and the way they make decisions.
- And then think about the magnitude of the challenges we face across the globe today - challenges that ONLY can be addressed by a new level of COLLECTIVE leadership, and collaborative innovation at every level.
And if you are looking for someone to help you take your game to the next level, reach out to me via LinkedIn for a free consultation - or to share your story!
Sunday, March 02, 2014
Introduction to Collective Leadership by PresenceAtWork
From the heart: I have high hopes that we can harness the collective intelligence across multiple disciplines and industries to address some of the very big challenges we face across every industry - creating sustainable, resilient and restorative practices that contribute to a better future for our children.
The three principles of the Collective Leadership Allies Program are described in this video by Roelien Bokxem of PresenceAtWork and by me - a student, practitioner, and advocate of collective leadership.
Principle 1: Leading from your authentic core
Principle 2: Leading from the whole rather than from "The Rock"
Principle 3: Leading from the emerging future rather than leading from past history.
We also introduce a powerful body-based strengths model, and how these strengths contribute and inter-relate in a collective or human system. In particular, I can validate the importance of understanding the individual strengths and which strengths are most critical in each phase of a change or innovation initiative. This model brings value well beyond what I have ever learned from Myers-Briggs or other similar individual leadership type tools and methods.
I invite you to listen with curiousity, and to think of relevance in your own organization. We have much meaningful and important work ahead, and this is all about "sharpening the saw".
Saturday, February 15, 2014
What's love got to do with it? With leadership, change and innovation, that is...!
We are in a world of accelerating change, and our organizations require a new leadership capacity to remain relevant
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Human beings are AT the HEART of change - and we are both the biggest barriers and the biggest enablersWho else is going to address these challenges? While so much focus is given to emerging technology, cleantech, cloud solutions, internet of everything, smart everything, the bottom line is that you and I make change happen - within and across organizational boundaries. And we meet resistance daily, as well as limitations in well-intentioned people who have simply don't know how to step up and step into leadership. And we can do something about that.
Collective Leadership is about leveraging the collective hearts and minds and the diverse strengths of the teams we are part of in order to accomplish our missionsIt sounds simple, but the reality is that more often than not - we are caught in our grandfather's leadership paradigm. Companies are organized as a hierarchy, and we are teaching leadership principles to individuals, but not teaching leaders how to work collectively. In fact, in my 28 years of corporate experience, I have witnessed how sometimes "innovators" and "collaborative leaders" are unintentionally pushed aside, perhaps because they are "hard to manage" or don't fit the mold of a traditional leader. However, what got us here won't get us there.... as they say.
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Monday, November 04, 2013
On a frosty November morn...
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Reflections on one year of Green Building
When I was a late teen or maybe early twenty-something I wrote a motto on an index card and I am still amazed that it still aligns so well with how I approach life and work today... (See picture - it is tacked up next to my home office desk, with other special items including my kids' artwork, the "golden rule" as stated in 8 world religions, and a wonderful b'day card from my oldest daughter Kelsey who is off to college on September 4th.)
Resolved:
to put forth my best effort in all that I do and to accept my accomplishments with the knowledge that I have done my best. This includes the efforts to work hard, to play hard, and to rest assured, that I have put equal efforts into all these things which give life its real substance. If you are never tired, you have not lived life to its fullest, for fatigue allows maximum appreciation of sleep.
So why this reflection on my one year anniversary with Schneider Electric as VP of Green Buildings Solutions? It fits the pace, the intent, the approach - to do my personal best. What's missing here - what was missing from my resolution at 20-something is not really surprising... And for me, it's actually the most important part today. It's the "why bother"? It's the "for the sake of what"? At 20 it was all about achievement and balance for me. Whatever you do, give it your very best... Today, it's much more about choosing what it is that I will commit to - in alignment with my sense of purpose, my values and my aspirations to have a lasting impact on this wonderful planet, for my family and humanity as a connected whole. For this - I will work hard, play hard, and rest assured that I have done my best.
So, the purpose? It's about significantly reducing energy use and CO2 emissions globally through corporate initiative. I'm aligned with Schneider Electric's CEO - Jean Pascale Tricoire, who believes we must help save energy to share it with the masses that don't have access to energy today for the most basic things - like clean water. I believe that we must change the way we interact with our world in order to sustain it for future generations - AND that this will require a huge amount of innovation which will ultimately (hopefully) help (most) businesses pave a more balanced forward path.
So, it's been a fantastic year of growth, learning, commitment and investment in a more sustainable future. And it's been a great family year too (but that's a different blog post!).
Tuesday, November 09, 2010
How to Nudge Consumers to Be Environmentally Friendly - WSJ.com#printMode
This surprises me quite a bit, as I personally subscribe to a belief that people need to really have a strong internal (emotional) desire and motivation for change in order to actually make significant changes (and especially to stick with them). In fact, in "The Heart of Change" by John Kotter, his research bears this out. The essence of Kotter's message is this: the reason so many change initiatives fail is that they rely too much on "data gathering, analysis, report writing, and presentations" instead of a more creative approach aimed at grabbing the "feelings that motivate useful action." (Citation, Amazon.com Review) So perhaps the peer pressure, the subconscious need that many of us have to "fit in" is enough of an emotional pull to incite some level of change after all. If this is the case, we have much work to do to reverse our consumption-oriented "more and bigger is better" culture! (In my humble opinion, of course!).
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Sustainability at Penn State University
Penn State is truly playing a Bigger Game in Sustainability. I participated in a workshop in late August where the brought in some of their key corporate stakeholders to really do some out of the box thinking on what a top university needs to be doing to create a sustainable future... and the outcomes were really exciting. There will be a whitepaper published on this 2 day workshop very soon, and it should be posted at http://www.green.psu.edu/.
This hits home in a very personal way for me, because I have a high school senior who is now choosing colleges to apply to, and career directions... What could be more inspiring than training at an institution that is truly committed to creating the sustainability leaders of the future? And even if they major in psychology, or liberal arts, they will be learning how to live more sustainably. I salute the vision that the folks at Penn State have... and hope to remain engaged as an ally to help them achieve it...
Monday, July 12, 2010
Life Calling
My path is revealed only as far as I can see,
Yet more often than not, I choose its direction.
I navigate my path thoughtfully,
with deliberate choices grounded in values and guided by intuition.
Even when faced with unexpected circumstances,
I choose my path, by choosing my reaction.
I choose to live in love, optimism, faith, beauty, warmth.
I choose spontaneity, nature, deep conversations, dreams.
I choose passion, risk, change, color.
I choose light, music, texture, spice.
I laugh, I cry, I experience, I give.
I nurture myself to be strong.
Sometimes my path is clear and my journey is effortless.
I savor these times, gathering strength,
languishing in bounty.
On rare occasions, my path seems blocked,
weather clouds my vision and dampens my spirit.
I trudge on in faith,
overcoming obstacles, trusting the sky to clear.
Sometimes I seek temporary shelter
and wait out the storm.
I believe God nurtures me in ways I cannot fully understand.
His grace is at work within me, and He walks with me.
I am a beam of light and many choose to walk with me,
warmed by my love, nurtured by my strength,
trusting my integrity, enrolled by my spirit,
stretched by my pace, comforted by my touch.
I am blessed by their presence.
I am supported, I am loved.
I am thankful.
On certain segments of my journey, I have chosen to follow others,
nurtured by their spirit and love,
Guided by their wisdom.
I am thankful.
I walk with increasing purpose,
as I reflect on whom I have become,
and how my journey has enriched me.
My need to help others choose their paths
becomes ever stronger,
like a calling.
I see possibilities ahead that are exciting.
Mountains to climb that are more challenging
than any behind me.
I will choose the climb that calls me,
perhaps joining with others
so we can forge a new path,
that becomes a lighted way for others
drawn to higher ground.
Melissa O'Mara
Written February 18th, 2003
CTI Fulfillment Class
Dallas, Texas
Copyright 2003
Sunday, April 11, 2010
BHAGs and Bigger Games - For the Sake of What?
From Wikipedia - The term Big Hairy Audacious Goal ("BHAG") was proposed by James Collins and Jerry Porras in their 1996 article entitled Building Your Company's Vision. A BHAG encourages companies to define visionary goals that are more strategic and emotionally compelling. In the article, the authors define a BHAG (pronounced BEE-hag) as a form of vision statement "...an audacious 10-to-30-year goal to progress towards an envisioned future."
A true BHAG is clear and compelling, serves as unifying focal point of effort, and acts as a clear catalyst for team spirit. It has a clear finish line, so the organization can know when it has achieved the goal; people like to shoot for finish lines. —Collins and Porras, 1996
Collins and Porras also used this concept in their book Built to Last: Successful Habits of Visionary Companies.
Change and innovation requires human energy. It requires that we move beyond our automatic pilot, our comfort zones, and sometimes it requires us to consider entirely new ways of being or seeing! Change and innovation require work of all kinds. The work of attention. The work of planning, questioning, investing, building, and perhaps most importantly - the work of recovering and restarting after inevitable setbacks and failures that happen along the way!
So given that, why bother? Why do any of us take the time to set big hairy audacious goals? For the sake of what I say? It's clearly a lot of work! I can attest to this personally... as you'll see by the timestamp of this post - whenever I finally get it done!
Why bother? Well, do we really want the status quo, really??? Many of us don't want the status quo at all. We have gripes, concerns, worries, aspirations, dreams, ideas... Some of us are very vocal about these "hungers" for something to be different, and others bury the thoughts, perhaps because they feel helpless, or "too tired", or simply unqualified to drive change. Or perhaps because it's not considered socially acceptable to discuss such controversial (dare I say politically loaded) concerns?
One of the best and stickiest tools that I have used in my collaborative innovation efforts is the Bigger Game Model. I've written about the Bigger Game numerous times over the years, and I want you all to know that it is still foundational to how I approach "BHAGS". In fact, it's foundational to how I approach life as a whole. And, if you read my "integral business meshworks - part 1", I can tell you that I see some pretty interesting parallels here as well. Why would you bother to form such an integral business meshwork - whatever that really is? Probably because you are recognizing the need for wholistic systems level change - and you know that it will take a network of like minded yet diverse people (across multiple organizations) to help drive this change.
For the sake of what then? Well, the interesting thing is that we all come to the table with our own unique reasons. In the case of accelerating the move to enterprise sustainability - some may come to the table because of a concern about global warming. Others may be much more concerned about dependency on foreign oil. Others simply want to grow the market for their sustainability technologies or services. And yet, we can find a common "BHAG", a compelling purpose for working together, and a "Bigger Game". We can...
Now, it's not as simple as dreaming up this joint compelling purpose, BHAG or Bigger Game; not at all. Execution is crucial to any significant endeavor, and Bigger Games are particularly vulnerable - certainly during early days. Bigger Game players (a.k.a. leaders) must constantly re-assess their game, leveraging the left brain analytic "just the facts" skills that are so abundant in the business world. And they must also tap back into the right brain, compelling purpose places - and make sure that the work (remember that hard work???) is still compelling, for all the allies that are so crucial to achieving the BHAG (big hairy audacious goal). And over the course of 12 - 18 months, leaders should be prepared to change or "morph" the game -because the world in which the game is to be played will be shifting.
Why bother though? Because it feels good! Working toward something meaningful with other smart committed (and hopefully fun) people is the very best reason - and if you're really lucky, you will also get paid to do it!
Smarter Planet anyone? Green Buildings? Healthy schools? Healthy families? Clean and abundant water? What's your compelling purpose? What's the name of your game?
Thursday, June 25, 2009
A child is born, christened "Promise"
christened "Promise"
because she is
From labor to "WOW"
a mother rejoices
and gives Promise to the world
A village with loving hearts
afire with passion
will nurture the child
All new - raising Promise
hope and responsibility
shared by many
for she is special
(as all children are)
A Promise for our future
for what's possible
when passion aligns with purpose
Bigger than us all
Growing us all
Connecting us all
She's safe with us
The world watches and waits
for the first smile
Dedication: Charter members of the Green Sigma Coalition
P.S.
Tuesday in San Francisco, the world got just a little better, in my humble opinion. The vibration lifted, in a room of competitors aligned around a compelling purpose - to accelerate the move toward enterprise sustainability... I had the supreme honor of helping birth the Green Sigma Coalition. She now belongs to all of us. Delivering Promise, Delivering on the Promise.
http://www.silobreaker.com/ibm-forms-green-sigma-coalition-to-enable-firms-to-save-planet-16_2262406435138699273
Saturday, April 04, 2009
Integral Business Meshworks Part 1 (and where I have been)
Clearly, we are in the midst of a breakdown of multiple sorts - economic, ecologic, and more subtly perhaps, a breakdown of belief systems, faith, political norms, and trust in the systems that we have perhaps previously taken for granted as being self-correcting or at least somewhat predictable. Now, nothing feels predictable. The future is more "up for grabs" than perhaps at any other time in human history. It feels (to me) like we are at a critical turning point, or perhaps better said, a choice point. Or, as my CEO Sam Palmissano has stated, it is time to co-create a smarter planet.... To which I say.... well - sort of...
The key word here is co-create. Not collaborate, not innovate, not evolve. Co-create. Forrester writes about their view of innovation co-creation - and the need for tech companies to form "customer-focused Innovation Networks (CFINs) in which they co-create innovation value with their corporate clients." I haven't read this entire article (but I will). I sense though, that this is only part of the co-creation equation - a good start. From what I've read, this is focused on creating technical solutions - externally focused.
So, I've been musing. I first learned of the term and concept of co-creation when becoming a certified professional life coach - in my training with The Coaches Training Institute. Actually, I am a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC). Learning and action is co-created by everyone in the room, everyone in the process. Wayne Dyer (whom I've never read) has a book called The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-create Your World Your Way . I believe the focus of this book (and many other spiritual & personal growth books and programs) is more on the individual internal will and how individuals can more effectively (intentionally) create clarity and "co-create" by aligning personal purpose with "source".
Then we have the works of Senge, Scharmer, Wilbur and other leading and bleeding edge thinkers & practitioners... that look at co-creation in a more wholistic or "integral" manner. That's where I'll go in my next post....
Monday, January 26, 2009
YouTube - Lost Generation
1 minute 44 seconds...This is worth watching... as a parent of "the next generation"...
Thursday, December 04, 2008
"Humanity screaming for a change"
Here's an excerpt from the article:
"We've been given this on a silver platter," says Sam Palmisano, CEO of IBM. "We might as well use it as an opportunity."
Believe it or not, the leader of Big Blue is talking about the financial crisis and the prospect of systemic overhaul. As companies around the globe try to get ahead of the economic maelstrom by laying off employees, shuttering factories, and cutting R&D, IBM (IBM, Fortune 500) is headed in another direction.
In the face of a meltdown, Palmisano continues, "you can retrench, pull in your horns, protect the balance sheet, and preserve cash. Or you can realize that this is about humanity screaming for change."
Sam Palmisano also spoke very persuasively to the Council on Foreign Relations on November 6th about the need to co-create a "smarter planet". This is definitely worth a listen, including the Q&A.... We are at a very unique moment in time where there is both a compelling need for significant change, and the technology and insights emerging that can enable or accelerate that change.
Think about what's happening in the world now... Complex systems are everywhere; in nature, in organizations. Whether we like it or not, these systems also interact with each other - often in a seemingly random cause and effect way - across organizations, industries, and geographies. Businesses and governments have primarily been focused on enterprise/intra-organizational effectiveness, and to a lesser and somewhat linear degree, up and down their value chain...
Yet the challenges we are facing today are bigger than enterprise scale! They are global - impacting multiple eco-systems, industries, and regions at the same time. Not enough water, increasingly intense weather events, the ripple effect of financial mismanagement resulting from perhaps a few myopic policies. What if we had the data, intelligence and insight to be able to model these complex "systems of systems" in order to predict and prevent or mitigate these challenges?
What if we had been able to monitor the fragility of the levees in New Orleans, and predict the various scenarios that could result in a breach? We are working on these smart levees and flood management solutions now - as part of Flood Control 2015 in the Netherlands. The parties participating in Flood Control 2015 are ARCADIS, Fugro, Royal Haskoning, HKV LIJN IN WATER, IBM, Deltares, ITC, TNO and the IJkdijk Foundation.
"The significant problems we have cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them." (attributed to Albert Einstein, US (German-born) physicist (1879 - 1955))
It's time for a new wave of innovation and leadership - humanity is screaming for change - and this poses incredible challenge and opportunity for our current and the next generation of leaders. And aren't we all capable of greatness in times of great challenge? Let's rise to the challenge...
Wednesday, December 03, 2008
Measuring GHG Emissions Up and Down the Supply Chain
The more complex the product, the more challenging the question, and the less likely (today) you are to be able to make a truly informed choice - based on verifiable facts, or at least trusted resources. From my perspective, this initiative is sorely needed in order to enable much better decision making, both for buyers who want to make informed purchases, but perhaps even more importantly, for companies committed to lowering their overall environmental impact - particularly in terms of the life cycle (cradle to grave, or cradle to cradle) impact of the products that they manufacture.
We are on a journey here, the very early stages of a long journey. This initiative will drive great learning and hopefully create tools and standards that will help us all to navigate with more precision, and hopefully, with a bit more speed!






